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Possessions that take up space and/or last a long timeNelson Baldemor of Danville, Virginia, was a Filipino American whose life was tragically cut short in a hit-and-run accident in 2021. While few public details about his personal or professional life are known, his legacy endures through the belongings he left behind. Collected by his neighbor, Maria Lourdes Pérez Muñiz, these items he treasured include a mother’s autobiography, letters, dress, photograph album, early 20th-century photographs of the Philippines by a news photographer, and works by his cousin, the renowned Filipino artist Manuel Baldemor.
Nelson carefully maintained these pieces as symbols of family pride and as tangible connections to the Philippines, his country of origin. Together, they offer a deeply personal narrative that extends into the broader Filipino diasporic experience. Through these intimate traces of one life, the BELONGINGS exhibition explores memory, heritage, and the enduring power of art to convey stories beyond absence.
You are invited to reflect on what endures, what is remembered, and how personal and cultural histories intersect through the objects we leave behind.
The collection embodies precious reminders of Family and the Philippines, capturing the Sense of Self of the Filipino diaspora. Key Filipino themes that speak to universal community principles include:
Bayanihan (Communal Unity & Cooperation): derived from the tradition of neighbors helping move a house, it is the concept of voluntary, cooperative effort to support others in need without expecting a reward.
Kapwa (shared self): is the concept of the recognition of a "shared inner self," where one sees the "other" not as a stranger, but as a part of oneself. It bridges gaps between different people to create a sense of connectedness.
Pasalubong (a homecoming gift): is the concept of bringing back gifts or souvenirs of a travel; it is a tangible sign of thoughtfulness that says, "I was away, but I remembered you."
These concepts are essential to the stories left behind by Nelson Baldemor through his belongings.
By preserving his mother’s autobiography and a letter from a photographer, Nelson honored the stories and memories they carried, reflecting the care and value he placed on these intimate connections.
Rooted in the Filipino words bayan (community) and bayani (hero), this value is traditionally symbolized by neighbors volunteering to lift a family's nipa hut and move it to a new location. It teaches that no load is too heavy when carried by the many. In this exhibit, we celebrate the Bayanihan spirit found in the USA, where a neighbor stepped in to carry the weight of a legacy that was nearly lost.
Following Nelson Baldemor’s sudden passing in 2021, his home was cleared, and his belongings faced an uncertain future. With no next of kin to claim them, his personal history was at risk of being discarded. The police found a phone number on the desk of the house and called Maria Lourdes Pérez Muñiz, Nelson’s neighbor. Though she is Puerto Rican and not Filipino, she embodied the Bayanihan spirit by salvaging these boxes of photos, letters, and art, hoping they would "find meaning beyond loss". Just as villagers carry a physical house to safety, Maria carried the "house" of Nelson’s memory to Chiara Cox, someone she thought could make good use of the items. This single act of being a "good neighbor" prevented the erasure of a Filipino-American story, proving that community is defined not by blood, but by care.
The spark for this exhibition began with an unexpected encounter. After a Filipino cultural event in May 2025, Cox was approached by Muñiz, carrying a small bundle of artwork once belonging to Baldemor, hoping they would one day find meaning beyond loss.
Months later, Cox felt compelled to organize, frame, and photograph the works in that bundle. She shared some of her progress with Muñiz. Her reply was “Today is Nelson’s birthday.” That simple sentence transformed the project from a simple act of preservation into something deeper. This exhibition now serves as an homage to Nelson’s life and legacy, and a reflection on the ways art endures as a vessel for immigrant memory, identity, and connection. It invites us to consider how stories continue to unfold long after their subjects have passed—and how, through art, we remain linked across cultures, generations, and time.
The Photographer Dempsey DeHart's letter to Dr. Anita Baldemor, Nelson's Mother
The Guard and the Doctor In 1978, at a workplace in Danville, Virginia, a "quiet exchange" took place that defied typical social hierarchies.
• The Guard: Robert Dempsey DeHart (1919–1992), an American who worked as a security guard.
• The Doctor: Dr. Anita Baldemor (b. 1921), a Filipino immigrant and practicing physician.
Though their roles were different, DeHart recognized a shared history with Dr. Baldemor. He had previously been a news photographer in the Philippines during the first half of the 20th century. By gifting her his personal archive of 8" x 10" black-and-white photographs, he shared "a glimpse into his own world," recognizing that his past was part of her identity. This act was Kapwa in motion—a recognition that despite their differences, they were connected by a shared love for the "rhythms and textures" of the Philippines.
In Filipino psychology, Kapwa is the core value of "shared identity." It bridges the gap between Ibang-tao (outsider) and Hindi ibang-tao (one of us). It asks us to treat others not as strangers, but as extensions of ourselves. In this gallery, we explore how two people —separated by background and profession—found their Kapwa through the memory of a distant land.
A centerpiece of the archive is a series of untitled, black-and-white photographs from the first half of the 20th century. These images were gifted to Nelson’s mother, Dr. Anita Baldemor, in 1978 by Robert Dempsey DeHart, an American news photographer who was working as a security guard at her workplace. This "quiet exchange" represents a profound cross-cultural appreciation of the Philippines and serves as a tangible connection to Nelson’s country of origin.
Today, DeHart’s legacy has transitioned from a private family treasure to a public historical resource. His photographs are central to the collection, where they serve as primary source fragments that help explore themes of memory, identity, and the ways stories continue to unfold across generations and cultures.
DeHart’s legacy here is like a bridge built from light and shadow. Though he transitioned from capturing news in the Philippines to guarding a medical facility in Virginia, his photographs created a permanent path that allowed the Baldemor family, and now the public, to travel back to a specific time and place in Filipino history.
• Early 1900s (The Philippines): Robert Dempsey DeHart documents the Philippines as a news photographer, capturing images of "Church/Mass," "Markets," and daily rituals.
• 1921 (Manila): Anita Baldemor is born in Santa Ana, Manila.
• 1978 (Danville, VA): The Intersection. DeHart, now a security guard, gifts his photographs and a personal letter to Dr. Anita Baldemor.
• 1978–2021 (The Home): Nelson Baldemor carefully maintains the photos as "tangible connections" to his heritage and family pride.
• 2025 (The Rescue): Maria Lourdes Pérez Muñiz (a neighbor) recognizes the value of the collection, extending the chain of Kapwa to a new generation.
Interactive Prompt: Kapwa teaches us that we find ourselves in others. Robert DeHart connected with Dr. Baldemor through photographs of her home country. How have you connected with someone unexpectedly? Think about a time you found a surprising connection with a stranger or someone from a different background.
Instructions:
1. Take a photo of an object that reminds you of this special person.
2. Upload the photo on your social media pages with a brief note about a time you found a surprising connection with a stranger or someone from a different background.
3. Help us weave our own community tapestry of Kapwa by using #KapwaBelongingsProject
These images allowed Dr. Baldemor and her son, Nelson, to see the Philippines and their culture through DeHart’s eyes.
Robert Dempsey DeHart
American, Danville, Virginia, 1919-1992
Untitled, first half of the 20th century
Black and white photographs of the Philippines
8" x 10"
Given by the photographer to Dr. Anita Baldemor in 1978.
In Filipino culture, no traveler returns empty-handed. The tradition of pasalubong, a homecoming gift, is more than a souvenir; it is a tangible sign of thoughtfulness that says, "I was away, but I remembered you.". While typical pasalubong might include sweets, the gifts Manuel Baldemor gave to his family in Virginia were far more enduring: he brought them the "rhythms and textures" of the homeland itself.
For Nelson and Dr. Anita Baldemor, living in the quiet of Danville, Virginia, these artworks served as the ultimate pasalubong, a way to bridge the distance between the diaspora and the enduring stories of heritage that art can carry across time and distance. By viewing these works as gifts of home, we understand why Nelson treasured and carefully maintained them. They were not just decorations or a reflection on cultural memory or an expression of family pride; they were most importantly the "embrace" of a cousin who returned to them, again and again, through the medium of art.
Manuel Baldemor (b. 1947) is a celebrated Filipino painter, sculptor, printmaker, writer, and book illustrator whose work has become emblematic of Filipino artistic identity. Known for his distinctive stylized forms, vibrant colors, and geometric compositions, Baldemor often draws on the rhythms and textures of rural Philippine life, capturing scenes of everyday work, festivals, landscapes, and community gatherings. His art celebrates the Filipino people, their resilience, warmth, and deep connections to family, tradition, and homeland, while also addressing universal themes of memory, belonging, and human experience. Over decades, his work has been exhibited nationally and internationally, earning recognition for its unique ability to blend personal narrative with collective cultural memory.
Baldemor has been a contributing artist for UNICEF Cards for almost 20 years, introducing the world to the beauty of the Philippines and the colors of our people. Here are some of the cards from Manuel's own correspondences to his family that Nelson collected using his global platform to bridge the gap between fine art and personal correspondence.
Just as Manuel Baldemor used his art to bring the "rhythms and textures" of the Philippines to his family in Virginia, you are welcome to select an image from the gallery to "bring home" metaphorically to someone you love.
The Prompt:
"Pasalubong is a way to say 'I was away, but I remembered you.'"
Manuel Baldemor gave these artworks to his family as pasalubong—gifts to bridge the distance between them.
Take a screenshot of an image in the collection that reminds you of someone you love.
Upload to your social media platforms, tag a friend(s) and write a note to tell them why this image was important to you and why it reminded you of home and/or your friendships.
Help us weave our own community tapestry of Pasalubong by using #PasalubongBelongingsProject
Why this works:
It operationalizes Kapwa: By asking visitors to think of someone else while viewing the art, it reinforces the concept that "the self is not separate from others".
It mirrors the collection's history: It replicates the "Quiet Exchange" between Dempsey DeHart and Dr. Anita Baldemor, where an image was used to share a world.
It is accessible: Pasalubong can be as simple as a sweet or a souvenir; this activity allows visitors to participate in the tradition without cost, using the "memory" of the art as the gift.
Manuel Baldemor
Filipino, born in Paete, Laguna, Philippines, b. 1947
colored photograph
3.5" x 5"
This photograph of the celebrated Filipino artist Manuel Baldemor was cherished by his cousin.
Baldemor has had numerous shows at the Philippine Center in New York City. Here is a link to his most recent show in 2015.
Manuel Baldemor
Filipino, born in Paete, Laguna, Philippines, b. 1947
Cañao Dance, 1983
handsigned and dated
artist proof etching in original frame by artist
10" x 10"
The Cañao, or Kanyaw, is a traditional festival of the Igorot peoples of Benguet in the Cordillera Mountains of Northern Luzon. It is a thanksgiving ritual offering pigs, chickens, cows, or carabaos to their deity, Kabunyan. Music, dance, and communal feasting mark the celebration. In this etching, a couple dances at the center, wrapped in handwoven textiles, as gong players and onlookers gather against the backdrop of the mountains—a vivid portrayal of unity, rhythm, and reverence.
Manuel Baldemor
Filipino, born in Paete, Laguna, Philippines, b. 1947
Food on the Roof, 1983
handsigned and dated
artist proof etching in original frame by artist
10" x 10"
This etching depicts families gathered inside their bahay kubo, traditional houses made of bamboo and palm leaves. In the center, an array of dishes and clay pots is spread across the rooftops, forming a grand communal meal. The scene celebrates the Filipino tradition of shared meals, a symbol of family connection, abundance, and gratitude.
Manuel Baldemor
Filipino, born in Paete, Laguna, Philippines, b. 1947
Jeepney, 1983
handsigned and dated
artist proof etching in original frame by artist
10" x 10"
A symbol of Filipino ingenuity and identity, the Jeepney was born from surplus U.S. military jeeps left after World War II. Transformed into brightly decorated vehicles with parallel benches for passengers, they became both practical and expressive works of art. Today, Jeepneys remain the most popular, and iconic, form of public transportation in the Philippines.
Manuel Baldemor
Filipino, born in Paete, Laguna, Philippines, b. 1947
Good Harvest, 1983
handsigned and dated
artist proof etching in original frame by artist
10" x 10"
In this print, women in the foreground hull rice, while a kerosene lamp illuminates a dish of fish beside them. Behind, a mother and child gaze from the window of their bahay kubo, a traditional home made of bamboo and palm leaves. The scene celebrates the abundance of daily life, reflecting the deep cultural importance of rice and fish, essential sustenance and enduring symbols of Filipino resilience and community.
Manuel Baldemor
Filipino, born in Paete, Laguna, Philippines, b. 1947
Harvestime, 1983
handsigned and dated
etching 26/32
14 3/4" x 17"
This print depicts families in their bahay kubo, traditional houses made of bamboo and palm leaves, engaged in various stages of planting and harvesting. At the center stands a fruit-bearing tree surrounded by villagers gathering its bounty. The scene symbolizes the communal effort of nourishing a barangay, or village, reflecting the spirit of cooperation that sustains Filipino life.
Manuel Baldemor
Filipino, born in Paete, Laguna, Philippines, b. 1947
Lambingan Bridge, 1983
handsigned and dated
etching 25/32
14 3/4" x 17"
In Tagalog, lambing means the act of showing affection or tenderness, while lambingan refers to the warmth shared between two people. At the center of this print is the Lambingan Bridge, connecting two sides of a lakeside village. Around it, families fish, cook, share meals, and rest together, simple gestures of love woven into daily life. The bridge becomes a symbol of connection and affection, reflecting the central place of love and togetherness in Filipino culture.
Manuel Baldemor
Filipino, born in Paete, Laguna, Philippines, b. 1947
Untitled, 1986
mixed media in original frame by artist
18.5" x 16"
This painting depicts a Filipino brass band, with musicians dressed in colorful shirts, sombreros, and handkerchiefs. Brass bands became a beloved feature of Philippine towns, evolving from Spanish colonial military ensembles into vibrant local traditions. Originally trained by Spanish military musicians, Filipino performers later formed their own community groups that played European, American, and local music. By the early 20th century, these bands had become the heartbeat of civic life, performing at religious festivals and parade. The scene celebrates music as a unifying force in Filipino culture, blending colonial influences with local creativity and joy.
Manuel Baldemor
Filipino, born in Paete, Laguna, Philippines, b. 1947
Untitled, 1986
mixed media in original frame by artist
18.5" x 16"
The carabao, or domestic water buffalo, is a national symbol of the Philippines, representing strength, perseverance, and the hardworking spirit of its people. The carabao is vital in rural life, providing farmer's with power, milk, and meat. In this painting, however, the animals are shown at rest, swimming and grazing peacefully in fields, offering a rare, tender glimpse of tranquility. This signed work was a birthday gift from the artist to Dr. Anita Baldemor, the mother of Nelson.
The collection provides rare primary source material for the study of 20th-century Filipino-American life:
• The DeHart Archive: Includes 8" x 10" black-and-white photographs of the Philippines from the early 1900s and personal correspondence from photographer Robert Dempsey DeHart.
• Biographical Records: An 8.5" x 11" autobiography by Dr. Anita Baldemor (b. 1921), offering a firsthand account of a Filipino professional's life in the United States.
• Artistic Merit: Original works by Manuel Baldemor, providing a connection to significant contemporary Philippine art.
The collection's provenance is fully documented, originating from the home of Nelson Baldemor in Danville, Virginia, and preserved by Maria Lourdes Pérez Muñiz. This transition from "left behind" items to a curated exhibit explores themes of absence, heritage, and what endures through the objects we treasure.
• Primary Documents: Autobiography (8.5" x 11"), Correspondence (8.5" x 11").
• Photographic Media: 8" x 10" silver gelatin or news-print style photographs.
• Curatorial History: Proven public interest with a roadmap of exhibits through 2026.
Chiara Cox a multidisciplinary artist, educator, and cultural leader who serves as the curator and organizer of the "Belongings Project" exhibition. Guided by her Filipino heritage, she dedicates her career to amplifying Filipino voices, producing events and managing curated collections that travel throughout the Southeastern United States to educate audiences on cultural pride and the preservation of indigenous craftsmanship. As the curator for this specific collection, Cox decided to transform an unexpected encounter with salvaged belongings into an homage to the Filipino diasporic experience and explore how art endures as a "vessel for memory, identity, and connection" specifically in regards to the immigrant experience. To elevate the exhibit beyond a simple display of artifacts, she chose to highlight the humanistic Filipino values of Bayanihan (communal unity), Kapwa (shared identity) and Pasalubong (homecoming gift). Visitors are then invited to reflect on what is remembered and how our personal and cultural histories intersect through the objects we leave behind.
Car Aldana is an art historian and multidisciplinary artist from Florida committed to inspiring and connecting people through creativity, visibility, and education. His art historical interests include contemporary and Asian art, especially through lenses of decoloniality and ecocriticism. His writing can be found on the mapping website Baroque Without Boundaries where he highlighted the Philippines’s role in the global transculturation of the early modern era. His artwork, which has been exhibited in Florida and Ohio and published in Fruitslice, explores themes of gender, ecology, and time.